what personality traits attract you most to a person?
a sense of humour is pretty important. i suppose you don’t necessarily have to be funny, but maybe understanding my humour - which admittedly is really silly most of the time - is fine too. (it’d make conversations 1000000x less awkward, because i chat so much shit half the time). although having said that it’s usually a big bonus when people can make me smile/laugh.
confidence??? idk it’s a bit of a weird one because i understand people have insecurities and you can’t really help what you feel insecure about, but i get really uneasy when individuals feel the need to constantly put that on the forefront. like i don’t understand why you would purposely air out that sort of thing other than for attention. like there’s opening up about stuff, and then there’s continuously shedding light on something to make someone feel (unintentionally???) guilty and i feel very weird about that. just focus on the positive and pretend your insecurities don’t exist like i do (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ* ・゚✧ ♥
also i like ppl that are honest/open about themselves, which doesn’t necessarily mean you have to share absolutely everything about yourself, i just really enjoy and appreciate sincerity in people tbh
(EDIT: i realised this may or may not contradict my previous point :S)
also this wasn’t meant to be that long i’m sorry ;_;